A Destination Starts at the Beginning

On January 1st, after a year of driving Uber and Lyft while finishing his trading courses, my husband became a full-time day trader. He (Jeff) had been a maintenance technician for almost 20 years, this was a significant career risk! He was hanging up his tool belt for an unknown future. Let me put the emphasis on trader, this means getting in and out of stock options as quickly as possible, making some money, and repeating this process all day long. He is not an investor. An investor puts money into a stock and waits for a long term financial gain. Nope. The hubby just looks for the quick buck. Jeff does not give anyone financial advise, other than to say, do your homework, and there’s a lot of it!

Why the change? Maintenance is a stable gig. After 20 years of hands-on experience, a boiler license, a pool license, including his technician’s license… why in the world would you want to change? Freedom. Freedom from a 24 hour a day emergency cell phone. Freedom from working day in and day out with a messed up back since high school football. Freedom to spend more quality time with an ailing wife who can’t guarantee her health will be at a maintainable level on any given day. Freedom to work in an arena that he only dreamt possible… (that’s the most important one I think.)

Has trading gone well for us? Hell no!!! But my husband is a survivor. He will fight for every nickel, dime, and dollar. He has and does! Day trading is a damn rollercoaster ride. You better be strapped in and ready for the drop, or you will not make it. You will literally be thrown from your seat off that ride! We have experienced the drop, several drops to be truthful, but we were both buckled in! We will continue on this ride.

So, my husband now needs only an internet connection to work. He is completely mobile. I am a blogger. All I need is an internet connection.

We have been going to home building shows for years, one day wanting to retire from the city to a log cabin possibly by one of the Great Lakes. Which one? When? How do we go about deciding where to live? Jeff is the outdoors type. Not the hunting/fishing guy but the camping/hiking kind of guy. He can fix anything, drive anything, and make a damn good breakfast over a open fire! Remember, I have some skills, I was a camp counselor and drove a big school bus. Why not continue ‘camping’ until we decide?

What in THE hell…?

It made sense. The RV lifestyle. We began our research even before Jeff decided to make a career change. The hubby and I are not impulsive people. Heck, he knew me since birth … it only took him 37 years to propose! To be fair, it took me 37 years to accept.

RV trade shows replaced our home shows. YouTube became an invaluable source of connecting with this lifestyle. Real pros and cons were listed, discussed, and re-categorized. We told no one. They’d believe we were daft. Would we be able to achieve what had now become this feverish goal? There would be many discussions, eventually revealing to extended family our plans. Some were good with it, others not so much.

We began to make the changes to get us mobile and into this elusive RV lifestyle destination! We just had to start at the beginning.

Now, this Fibro Warrior begins to find freedom by learning to become a rolling stone!


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    1. Thank you Brigid! This is exciting! Stressful! Rewarding! Hard! On and on… Iโ€™m working on my first post, the search for an RV. Fingers crossed itโ€™ll be a POSITIVE post! ๐Ÿฅด yes… it has to be positive! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’ซ

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  1. Kim,
    Tomorrow’s the big day, isn’t it? The 5th? Oh Wow! That has come up super fast! Just think, even when you’re rolling down the highway, you still have your tribe right by your side anyway! Ah, the magic of technology! ! Love you, Woman! Y’all take extra care out there! Mona

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  2. I bet the freedom to Jeff after the 24hr callouts smelled so sweeeeeeet! I marvel at people who understand what stocks are, let alone how to trade. He’s doing a speeded up version of an investor, like an investor on acid! In and out, no hanging around. I like it. Math isn’t my strong suit and numbers get me confused, so the rational, logical part of my brain says ‘no Caz, leave it to the professionals’ but the other part of my brain says ‘go on, give it a go’ ๐Ÿ˜‚ Ever heard of matched betting? Some people do it here in the UK from home almost like a work from home job and can make quite decent money from it. I tried to learn, could never get into my head what bet odds were and how to ‘read’ them. Gave that whole idea up pretty quickly. xx

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    1. Yes, he likes trading. Investing… takes too long! Haha! Itโ€™s still a crazy amount of hours he puts in, on his platform and studying… constantly. But he LOVES it! Matched betting… never heard of that, sounds a lot like our gaming betting pools or horse racing betting… al about the odds, dang! I canโ€™t figure that out either! Yes… that little voice… I tell it to SHUT IT! I am not going to, no way! But then again… ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ

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  3. Wow! Road warriors! That’s the life, to be honest. Did I ever tell you that RV was my dream car, years ago? I don’t see it in my future now (we are such homebodies!) but what a dream to chase! Very proud of you both. I’m gonna be camping next weekend, to be fair. Now, since we are such homebodies, we plan to camp in the backyard with a few people over, but still … it counts!

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    1. It counts! We were really fed up with the city… so as we are mobile, finally after scheming and planning… RV THERE YET??? You never know Tom… you may retire and think, forget this! In that case, we will see you on the road! Wahoo! And, thanks Tom! Weโ€™ve been planning this for a few years and finally!๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿ‘

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    1. Well, come a long! We will make room! It is a fabulous country to explore… beyond all the foolishness, staying away from fabled โ€œnewsโ€ stations that canโ€™t get a fact straight! There are good people here, beautiful sights and amazing things to see in every state. America the beautiful… it really is! Come now Bo, adventure awaits! ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

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